They love to hear us say yes to their desires and lay our pleasure in their hands. But I think that all women should try it at least once. Embrace your dark side and give your man a double win. If you experience bleeding after anal sex or you notice a sores or lumps around the anus or a discharge coming from it, see your doctor as soon as possible. Bleeding after anal sex could be due to a hemorrhoid or tear, or something more serious such as a perforation hole in the colon. Sex is what men and women are designed for and it is absolutely beautiful.